The Law of Gender (one of the 7 Laws of Attraction) states that there is male and female in every kind for all of creation.
One must plant the seed, and the other is responsible for growing and nourishing that seed. For every seed, including the physical and non-physical (thoughts and goals), there is an incubation period that must take place.
Most physical seeds have a set time-frame. The gestation period is different for non-physical seeds. Another difference with thoughts and goals is belief.
You must first believe it. Then you will see it. Believing is seeing!
Keep your thoughts positive:
"Every thought seed sown or allowed to fall into the mind, and to take root there, produces its own, blossoming sooner or later into act, and bearing its own fruitage of opportunity and circumstance. Good thoughts bear good fruit, bad thoughts bad fruit."
Thought = seed. Emotion = nourishment.
Focus is important. But emotional involvement along with focus is what will grease the wheels. Your dominant emotion will dictate your future. Are you usually grateful and excited? Or are you normally worried and anxious?
Think about how you will feel when you have it. Do this often enough with strong emotion and your subconscious will begin to accept it as reality.
Remember - the only difference between the successful and the non-successful is how they think. Changing your thoughts can truly change your life.